What a difference a sad event in someone's life makes.
GEORGE CARLIN (His wife recently died...)   

 

Isn't it amazing that George Carlin - comedian of the 70's and 80's - could write something so very eloquent...and so very appropriate.

A Message by George Carlin:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the w ay to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when the technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, "I love you" to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

 

 

You were my sun, you were my earth
but you didnt know all the ways I loved you, no
So you took a chance, made other plans
But I betcha didnt think that they would come crashin down, no


You dont have to say, What cha did
I already know, I found out from HIM
now theres just no chance
with you and me
there will never be
dont it make you sad about it


you told me you love me
Why did you leave me all alone
now you tell me you need me
When you call me on the phone


Girl I refuse
you must have me confused with some other guy
the bridges were burned
now its your turn,To cry


Cry me a river
Cry me a river er er
cry me a river
cry me a river er er
YA YA


You know that they say somethings are better left Unsaid
It wasnt like you only talked to him
And you know it
(Dont act like you dont know it)
all of these things people told me
keep messin with my head
shoulda been honesty
then you may not have thought it


You dont have to say, What cha did
I already know, I found out from HIM
now theres just no chance
with you and me
there will never be
done it make you sad about it


you told me you love me
Why did you leave me all alone (all alone)
now you tell me you need me
When you call me on the phone ( call me on the phone)


Girl I refuse
you must have me confused with some other guy (not like them baby)
the bridges were burned
now its your turn to cry


So
Cry me a river
Cry me a river er er
cry me a river
cry me a river er er
YA YA


Oh
The damage is done
So i guess i be leavin


Oh
The damage is done
So i guess i be leavin


Oh
The damage is done
So i guess i be leavin


You dont have to say, What cha did
I already know, I found out from HIM
now theres just no chance
with you and me
there will never be
dont it make you sad about it



So
Cry me a river
Cry me a river er er
cry me a river
cry me a river er er
cry me a river
cry me a river...........
 

The girl's name Laila \la(i)-la\ is pronounced LAY-lah. It is of Arabic origin, and its meaning is "night beauty".

See Leila. Usually refers to dark hair or a dark complexion. See also Lyla.

Laila has 7 variant forms: Laela, Laliah, Lailie, Laily, Laleh, Layla and Laylah.

Baby names that sound like Laila are Lila, Lala and Lalla.

Laila is a common female first name and a very rare surname (source: 1990 U.S. Census).

 

 

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is,

you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually

to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide

you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like

 a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any

wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring

the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up a

nd force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled,

their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

 

 

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have

never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!

 

 

 

 

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid

emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned

to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

 

 

 

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

 

 

 

 

When Dan found out he was going to inherit a fortune when his sickly father died, he decided he needed a woman to enjoy it with.

So, one evening he went to a singles bar where he spotted the most beautiful woman he had ever seen. Her natural beauty took his breath away.

"I may look like just an ordinary man," he said as he walked up to her, "but in just a week or two, my father will die, and I'll inherit 20 million dollars."

Impressed, the woman went home with him that evening and, three days later, she became his stepmother.

( Women are so much smarter than men! )

Favorite Thing: Well, handling romantic and love situation at times may look

to be very tricky and sometimes difficult to handle but following some basic

steps could be very useful!! :-)

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not
love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing
wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the
other person's heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don't
love her/him, feel honoured that love came and called at
your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot
return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and
all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if
our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and she falls in love
with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to
reclaim it or to assess blame, Let it go. There is a
reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you.
All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery
when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you
to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.
Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.
Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.

This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long
without love, they understand love only as a need.
They see their hearts as empty places that will be
filled by love, and they begin to look at love as
something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing,
but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their
love as need. They cease to be someone who generates
love and instead become someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a
gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it
away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its
own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for
coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or
reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it
arrives and give it away when it comes to you.

But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the
heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and
there is nothing you should do. Love always has been
and always will be a mystery.

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt...

Everything you do for me reassures me that I am appreciated. I want you to know that you mean so much to me. From the first day we met, you were determined to get to know me. At first, I was skeptical about you because of your persistence, but you quickly grew on me. I want you to know that every moment we’ve spent together since that first day holds a special place in my heart. I was afraid at first that if I let you in I’d regret it, but I haven’t regretted a single moment. I trust you, and I know you’ll be there for me no matter what. I trust that you’ll be faithful to me and that you won’t hurt my heart. You tell me how you want only the best for me. You tell me how beautiful I am. You tell me how you love every curve of my body. You just make me feel extra special; make me feel a sense of warmth inside. I want you to know that I love you for this! I love you for being so caring and genuine. I love you for everything you’ve done for me. I love you for the happiness and joy you bring to my life. I love you for you! We don’t even need to talk to communicate with each other. By just being together, holding hands, or cuddling, we can sense each other’s thoughts and inner feelings. I want you to know that I want the best for you as well. I want you to succeed and I want all your dreams and fantasies to come true. I know that in me you see a young woman full of kindness, understanding, and compassion. A young woman with an open-heart. A young woman who puts a smile on your face everyday. I will be that woman who’s there for you just as you’re there for me, the one who encourages you through life’s ups and downs. But ultimately, I want to be the woman who is your everything. Not an hour goes by that I don’t think about you. You have brought so much joy to my life and you give me so much to look forward to when I wake up every morning. I want you to know that I sincerely appreciate you and I can never tell you enough that “I LOVE YOU!”
  

Oh how can love be so sweet
I'd never know it if we didn't meet
I can look into your eyes and see
Just how much love you feel for me

All I want to do is hold you close to me
Every second of every day, to feel every heart beat
Feel every emotion that is within you
Be it joy and happiness, or even when you are blue

The joy I feel when I walk next to you
You have your arms around me, mine around you
With our hands linked together
Knowing we'll be together forever

Sweet oblivion is how I would describe it
To everything around us, every second every minute
The hours with you is always never enough
I dread the minutes that we spend apart

I love you with my life, fully and passionately
You've touched my heart, mind, soul and body
Each time you hold me close and hug me tight
I need you to hug me closer with all your might

As I lay in bed and close my eyes
I can see our future, imagine our lives
With the love that we share, sweet and strong
I know I'll be with you, all life long

I thank God and the heavens above
For bringing to my life such deep love
You've made my life rich and fulfilled
Life without love is not to be lived
 

برج الحوت

من تاريخ : 19 فبراير إلي تاريخ : 20 مارس
العنصر : ماء
أسعد أيامه : الخميس
اللون المفضل : الأرجواني والأزرق الفاتح
اسعد أحجاره الكريمة : الياقوت الأحمر واللؤلؤ
اسعد أرقامه : 7
خصائصه : يحب الوحدة , فنان , حساس , متقلب , له مزاج خاص لا يشبه أحدا

 

شفافية , أنوثة طاغية وإثارة , امرأة تذوب في الحب هي المرأة الحوت

هذه المرأة المحبة للحياة وللعيش برفاهية , إذا اقفل الحظ أبوابه ونسيت الفرص طريق بيتها , عنده تتحول إلي امرأة يائسة متشائمة تلجا إلي المسكنات علها تنسي

إما في الحالات التي تكون فيها الحياة في عينيها حلوة فستكون هي الأحلى , لها نظرات عميقة وهادفة , وعلي شفتيها ابتسامة قد تكون أكثر تعبيرا من كلام الأدباء

الفتاة الحوت أو تضحك لها الدنيا أو تعبس وهي طيبة إلي درجة السذاجة أحيانا في ما يتعلق بأمورها الخاصة إما في ما يخص غيرها فقد تكون الأقدر علي فهم مشاعر الغير وعلي التعمق بمعرفة شخصيتهم

إنسانة ودودة ومخلصة لأصدقائها ,ولو أنها سريعة الانجراف مع أراء الآخرين , وسرعة تأثرها قد تدفعها إلي الحكم علي المواقف بطريقة متسرعة إلا إن هذه المولودة خير من يساعد غيره

المال يعني لها حياة حلوة , إشباع رغبات , تمتعا بالأوقات , رفاهية وليس توفيرا وادخارا

في العمل حكيمة هي وأعصابها هادئة , ترحب بالنقد البناء , وترد الكيل كيلين إذا انتقدت لمجرد الانتقاد خصوصا أنها تتقن فن الكلام مع الرجال

في مرحلة الشباب الأولي قد تنقاد وراء رغباتها غير أبهة بمجتمع قد يطلق عليها حكم قاسي

برأيها إن الحياة من دون ارتباط حرية إما إذا ارتبطت فإنها ستجعل حبيبها محور عالمها

تتقن فن المغازلة حد الجرأة في الكلام , وتغريها العلاقة الصعبة حيث يكمن جمال اكبر , لها قدرة فائقة علي السير في المشوار حتى ولو كان طويلا

عاطفية وبالرغم من معرفة قدراتها فإنها لا تحب إن تكون المسيطر بل تترك لحبيبها وبكل طيبة خاطر فرصة الإمساك بزمام الأمور , لتبقي هي الأنثى القوية في رضوخها , والشفافة في أنوثتها , هذه المرأة تحب الرجل الذي بإمكانها إن تتظلل به وقليلا ما توجه له نقدا إلا إذا تقاعس في العمل فإنها تتحول إلي ناقدة دائمة حتى ينفض عنه غبار الكسل هذه المرأة العاشقة تزعجها علاقة باردة ومن هنا قد تفتش عن حب جديد

الحوت الزوجة قادرة علي تحمل مسؤولياتها بواقعية دون التخلي عن أحلامها , فإنها وهي تعمل تحلم كان تلاحظها تبتسم لنفسها فإنها تكون تبتسم لفكرتها أو لحلمها

مع أولادها لا يمكنها إن تقسو بل تفيض حبا ورقة وعذوبة , وكم تخاف عليهم من حرمان خصوصا إذا عاشت هي طفولة لم تكن زهرية

هل تفتش عن امرأة أحببتها في قصة أو رايتها في لوحة فتش عن امرأة هذا البرج

برج الحوت
شخصية هادئة وكأنها من عالم أخر في بعض الأحيان
مشية برج الحوت هادئة , ملامح وجهه ذابلة ونظراته حالمة وشاردة , عيناه ضيقتان بالإجمال وقسمات وجهه صغيرة إما الشفتان إما رقيقتان أو ممتلئتان
جلده ناعم وهو اقرب إلي القصر
يتحدث عن أحلامه ويفخر بها , يستهتر بالقضايا الكبيرة ويهتم ليومه ويترك هموم الغد للغد
سريع التأثر أمام النقد وحساس , غضبه قصير الأمد وكأنه لم يغضب